November 4, 2021
HOW TO DEVELOP A MINDSET OF RESILIENCE
The mindset of a swimmer who is mentally tough in trying and challenging situations is part genetic and part process/environment. Some swimmers simply “have it” while others spend their whole careers trying to develop that killer mindset.
No matter where your resilience levels are at these days, there are things you can do to sharpen your resilience.
Here are a couple ideas.
1. TAKE MOMENTS OF ADVERSITY AS OPPORTUNITIES TO DEVELOP A COMPETITIVE EDGE.
The attitude you bring with you on the pool deck has a way of epitomizing your potential for success.
If you approach that impossible test set or workout with an outlook of—“I bet my competition isn’t doing this set”—you are building yourself a competitive edge that compounds every time you show up for that extra workout, or stay late, or go above and beyond in training.
One of the pillar training beliefs of Michael Phelps and his coach Bob Bowman was a simple commitment to do what no one else was willing to do. This meant training every day for five consecutive years before the Beijing Games. It meant training on holidays, including Christmas and his birthday. The confidence that comes from this kind of “all in” approach is impossible to fake.
In a study of a dozen Olympic champions, one of the common thoughts they had was that moments of intense stress in training provided them with a “psychological and competitive edge.”
The way that they approached the really hard stuff in training was with the mindset that it would make them tougher, faster, and harder to beat.
2. FIND SITUATIONS TO DISPLAY RESILIENCE.
The problem with wanting to be more resilient is that we only want to be more resilient when things are going our way. When it’s easy. When training is going well, there are no bad surprises, and our swimming and the progress we are making is under our control.
It’s when things go south on us where we need to show up with a six-pack of resilience. It’s not enough to read this article, realize how important it is, and declare: “I am now the resilientist!”
You need to practice. You need to take your licks in training and stand back up. You need to approach the setbacks and stressors: both anticipated, a really hard set, as well as the unanticipated: a sudden injury or illness, with the same attitude and asking the same question, “How can I make this the best thing to happen to my swimming?”
Another study of championship athletes looked to figure out the difference between those that graced the top of the podium and those who came up short, the “almosts.”
One particular thing that all the champs possessed was a willingness to face and overcome challenges. No matter what was in front of them, they would tackle it with everything they had.
“I always felt that there’s no chance, nobody or anybody that could train more than I did,” said one of the super champions.
3. USE SMALL MOMENTS OF AGGRAVATION TO STRENGTHEN YOUR RESILIENCY MUSCLES.
We always want more resiliency when the big things pop up: when we blow a shoulder, our coach gives us a ridiculous workout, or we are trounced in competition. We want it for the big moments because we know that mental toughness is critical to our success.
But resiliency isn’t something you use once in a while. It’s a skill—something you sharpen each day in training and in life.
Resiliency is necessary for a wide range of events and stressors: from the day to day annoyances (having to share a 25-yard lane with nine other swimmers, getting cut off in traffic) to the life-rattling moments (loss of a loved one, serious injury).
One of the things I always tell athletes when they ask what my favorite “hack” is for mental toughness is simple: How you react to the little things is a preview of how you are going to react when things really turn on you.
You probably know this already on some level: if you swim sloppy when things are easy, you are going to swim sloppy when things get more challenging.
RESILIENCY IS IN YOUR THOUGHTS.
Viewing setbacks as opportunities is one thing. And you will benefit so greatly with this approach that frankly, it’s flat-out nasty.
But for elite swimmers, this is one part of the resiliency equation. The other is the ability to understand that resiliency is a decision they ultimately have control over. Not the other swimmers in the pool. Not the coach. Not your parents. Not the turd-muffin who swam head-first into you in the warm-up pool.
How resilient you are is on you. Not the environment.
For example, if you show up to finals, and the swimmer who you’re going head to head with later is swimming like a greased-up tech suit during the warm-up, your thinking could go a familiar route:
“What the Fartlek, he is swimming so fast. I’ve got to compete against that later tonight? This is gonna be impossible…”
Wide-eyed and with your heart in your throat, this could be the moment where the mindset of our example swimmer tanks. A prime set-up for some world-class choking.
The resilient swimmer, acknowledging that the competition—being part of the environment which they have no control over—has nothing to do with them. Instead of focusing on the competition, they focus on their own thoughts:
“Whoa, whoa, let’s relax here. Remember the last meet when I swam so powerfully and smoothly en route to crushing my PB?”
Resiliency comes from your thoughts—not the people around you. It comes from focusing on the things you have control over: this is ultimate power.
YOU CAN BENEFIT GREATLY FROM YOUR STRUGGLES—IF YOU CHOOSE TO DO SO.
The Olympic champion, and the victories they amass, always appears cleanly. We don’t see the struggles, the frustrations, the defeats and the injuries. All we see is an epic performance that comes together perfectly at the right time.
As a result, we can mistakenly assume that their path to the pinnacle of the swimming world was straight-forward. But this is never the case.
Behind the smiles, the world records and the medals is a history of overcoming defeats. Of facing painful setbacks. Of countless moments of doubt and grueling sets that bend their confidence to the point of snapping.
But buried in those painful setbacks and moments of frustration are the seeds of what they will often credit for shaping them into champions.
The Olympic champions surveyed acknowledged that if were not for the moments of high stress; the nearly career-ending injury, parental divorce, serious injury and being passed over for other athletes, they would never have achieved the success they eventually did.
The defeat can beat you down.
The injury can leave you feeling like it’s a lost cause.
But you are mentally tougher than you give yourself credit for.