October 16, 2013
"If you want to be the best, you have to do things that other people aren't willing to do."
- Michael Phelps
Sign up to help for the Iron Pentathlon and Jamboree Weekend: I know, I’ve said it before . . . but there are still LOTS of jobs that need to be filled. It takes a lot of work to host a meet, but it’s so very worth the work for a number of reasons! Your swimmer gets to compete (without parent hosted meets, there would simply be no swim meets, period!), you get to watch your swimmer work for what they’ve been training for, and our club earns vital revenue important for our budget and keeping swim fees affordable for ALL of our members. Whether your child swims in this meet or not, YOU benefit, so please come out and help!
Get ready for the Regional High School Meet: The Okanagan Regional High School Swim meet is being hosted by KISU on the afternoon of October 27th. This is the qualifying meet for swimmers to get to the Provincial High School Championships! On the morning of October 26th, all high school swimmers are invited to come out for a Relay practice, which will take place during our regular practice time of 7:30-9am. This will not interfere with the other groups that are also practicing at this time. And, of course, we will need help to run this meet as well, so please sign up using the Job Sign Up button.
Buy a Cookbook . . . or two: Order online, or bring your cash to the swim meet and purchase your cookbooks where the heat sheets are sold! $12 for one, $10 for two or more. Great Christmas gifts!
Come to the Spring Break Camp Meeting: This is the meeting to determine if camp is a go or not . . . if you are even remotely interested, please come to the Greenery on October 24th at 5pm.
Watch the website for information on the upcoming Vernon and Kamloops Swim Meets: The Vernon meet is the weekend of November 8th – they have heats and finals on the Saturday of the meet – great experience for our swimmers! Kamloops is a team travel meet in December, and swimmers must have at least one A time standard to attend this meet (ask your swimmer if you aren’t sure). We will be looking for commitments for team travel soon – planning takes some time!
KISU ALUMNI PARENTS CONTINUE TO SUPPORT OUR CLUB
Let us take a moment to introduce you to John Kennedy and Cathy Sheehan. These two are no strangers to KISU Swim Club, or to our swim meets. You may recognize them as the pair in white who show up for ALL of our home meets and donate their entire weekend to officiating. They have raised three boys, all of whom have been involved with KISU at one point or another – and one of whom carried on to swim at the University level while attending UofT. You will see John and Cathy at our Iron Pentathlon weekend on Friday and Sunday. Please take a moment to thank them for their generosity!
10 COMMANDMENTS FOR SWIMMING PARENTS
by Rose Snyder
1. Thou shalt not impose your ambitions on thy child. Remember that swimming is your child's activity. Improvements and progress occur at different rates for each individual. Don't judge your child's progress based on the performance of other athletes and don't push them based on what you think they should be doing. The nice thing about swimming is people can strive to do their personal best and benefit from the process of competitive swimming.
2. Thou shalt be supportive no matter what. There is only one question to ask your child after a practice or a competition - "Did you have fun?" If meets and practices are not fun, your child should not be forced to participate.
3. Thou shalt not coach thy child. You are involved in one of the few youth sports programs that offer professional coaching, do not undermine the professional coach by trying to coach your child on the side. Your job is to provide unconditional love and support and a safe place to return at the end of the day. Love and hug your child no matter what. Tell them how proud of them you are. The coach is responsible for the technical part of the job. You should not offer advice on technique or race strategy or any other area that is not yours. And above all, never pay your child for a performance. This will only serve to confuse your child concerning the reasons to strive for excellence and weaken the swimmer/coach bond.
4. Thou shalt only have positive things to say at a swimming meet. If you are going to show up at a swimming meet, you should be encouraging, but never criticize your child or the coach. Both of them know when mistakes have been made. And remember “yelling at” is not the same as “cheering for”. You also may want to consider being positive anytime you are around the pool.
5. Thou shalt acknowledge thy child's fears. A first swimming meet, 500 free or 200 IM can be a stressful situation. It is totally appropriate for your child to be scared. Don't yell or belittle, just assure your child that the coach would not have suggested the event if your child was not ready to compete in it. Remember your job is to love and support your child through all of the swimming experience. Most of their fears are one’s you have given them.
6. Thou shalt not criticize the officials. If you do not care to devote the time or do not have the desire to volunteer as an official, don't criticize those who are doing the best they can. You too can be trained to be an official in an afternoon.
7. Honor thy child's coach. The bond between coach and swimmer is a special one, and one that contributes to your child's success as well as fun. Do not criticize the coach in the presence of your child, it will only serve to hurt your child's swimming.
8. Thou shalt be loyal and supportive of thy team It is not wise for parents to take their swimmers and to jump from team to team. The water isn't necessarily bluer in another team's pool. Every team has its own internal problems, even teams that build champions. Children who switch from team to team are often ostracized for a long, long time by the teammates they leave behind and are slowly received by new team mates. Often times swimmers who do switch teams never do better than they did before they sought the bluer water.
9. Thy child shalt have goals besides winning. Most successful swimmers are those who have learned to focus on the process and not the outcome. Giving an honest effort regardless of what the outcome is, is much more important than winning. One Olympian said, "My goal was to set a world record. Well, I did that, but someone else did it too, just a little faster than I did. I achieved my goal and I lost. Does this make me a failure? No, in fact I am very proud of that swim." What a tremendous outlook to carry on through life.
10. Thou shalt not expect thy child to become an Olympian. There are 280,000 athletes in USA Swimming. Only 2% of the swimmers listed in the 10 & Under age group make it to the Top 100 in the 17-18 age group and of those only a small percentage will become elite level, world class athletes. There are only 52 spots available for the Olympic Team every four years. Your child's odds of becoming an Olympian are about .0002%. Swimming is much more than just the Olympics. Ask your coaches why they coach. Chances are, they were not an Olympian, but still got so much out of swimming that they wanted to pass the love for the sport on to others. Swimming teaches self-discipline and sportsmanship; it builds self-esteem and fitness; it provides lifelong friendships and much more. Most Olympians will tell you that these intangibles far outweigh any medal they may have won. Swimming builds good people, like you want your child to be, and you should be happy your child wants to participate.