September 3, 2021
EXPECTING IT TO BE EASY SETS YOU UP FOR DISAPPOINTMENT IN A BIG WAY.
In my experience (both personally, and with swimmers that I’ve trained with and worked with over the years), it’s the wishful thinkers that always end up the most disappointed.
They expect things to be easy.
They feel they deserve for things to be easy.
They hope for the easy path.
Or that because they have suffered through some hard work and persevered through some trying times, that it’s all downhill from here on out.
But “easy” expectations aren’t realistic. Nothing hard is ever easy. And if your goals are ambitious, if what you are trying to accomplish is certified terrifying, than yes, it’s gonna be hard.
It’s gotta be hard, in fact.
EXPECTING IT TO BE HARD KEEPS YOU MOTIVATED.
Not only is “easy” success a myth, but it’s also pointless because an easy win is a totally hollow victory.
The moment it’s easy is the same moment it loses any meaningful sense of reward and satisfaction.
When you race against a swimmer who is super slow does that motivate you to swim your best?
But when you race against someone who is a little faster than you, does that push you to a new level of effort and achievement?
You bet your soggy chlorinated bottom it does.
The “hard” part makes it rewarding…
Beating the swimmer who should be beating us. Chasing down the world record holder on the anchor leg of a relay. Out-working the faster swimmer in the next lane.
You don’t celebrate the easy wins.
It’s the hard ones that we celebrate and ultimately motivate us.
“EASY” DOESN’T PREPARE YOU.
When you expect it to be hard you are better prepared, mentally and physically for competition.
You already understand this, even if it is just on an intuitive level…
If you walk on deck at the championship meet with the expectation that your warm-up will go just so, your feel for the water will be exactly as good as you want it to be, and your competition will swim just slow enough that you beat them, you are in for a world of disappointment.
You know this. I know this.
And yet, we fall for this “it should be easy” line of thinking more than we should.
But, if on the other hand, you go in with a hardened mindset that things will be challenging, you are better ready for the surprises:
A bad race on opening night. Choking on one of your best events. Not getting the “perfect” warm-up.
IT ALWAYS TURNS OUT TO BE HARDER THAN YOU THINK.
Don’t fall for the illusion of easy. Go in with the mindset that it will be tough, that it will stretch you and that it will challenge you.