Testimonials
“The common man asks, what’s in it for me? The enlightened man asks, how can I help?“
The five years that our family has been involved with OA have gone by in a flash, but the impact on all of our lives has been monumental. At first, it was like drinking from a fire hose for all of us; we found our way and quickly became aware of what a gem this team and swim community is. Having lived for more decades that we care to claim, I have learned a lot about character from the many individuals that we have studied and worked with, but we know that nothing could have given our child better skills for dealing with the real world than her five years with OA. Being a part of this team has given her skills that no classroom or other extracurricular could. Where else can young people learn about group dynamics, respect for authority, coping with adversity and celebrating success—their own and their teammates'—like they can with a high level swim team like OA? Being a part of this team has prepared her for the inevitable challenges and joys that higher education and career establishment will present, and this would not have been possible without her coaches. OA Parent
This senior class is remarkable in size, quality of colleges selected (a tour de force of intellectual capacity!) and of course, the very moving senior letters. What a fabulous team culture is reflected therein.
You and your team are always an inspiration! Interantional Coach
Hello again, I was pleasantly surprised, to receive an email from a friend (my son's old coach) that included an amazing article you have written entitled "The Real Culture of American Swimming" and to realize that I still had your contact information to express my gratitude. I started reading the article before I knew who wrote it, and in the back of my mind, said to myself, "This sounds like something that might come from Orinda. " Thank you for so eloquently speaking what we so strongly feel. You are an amazing steward of this sport. And this sport needs you. Swim Parent (out of area)
I'm so not ready to say bye to all of you. OA has played such an important role in my daughters life. She truly believes in what you teach about kids' character, and this will carry with her for the rest of her life. It has been a true privilege to watch how much OA has an impact on kids. OA Parent
We visited a college over the break and had an opportunity to speak with the coach. He was wonderful to offer us so much of his time. In the course of our conversation he made it very clear how much he likes to recruit kids from OA. That OA swimmers come away from the program really knowing how to train and are great kids and teammates. As always, we are grateful for the opportunities OA has afforded us. OA Parent
Don, Many thanks for your definitive thesis on Character and Culture. This is “must read” stuff for any coach in any sport – or any organization for that matter. I can think of a number of organizations I have been in that would have been much better for following your principles. With appreciation for a job well done. Mike Stott, Swimming World Magazine
Hi Don, I attended the Zoom presentation about Character in Sport and Life. The content actually made me think about and change some of my own behaviors that have crept in the wrong direction while dealing with business. I really look forward to our child joining Orinda Acquatics when ready. I think the program and the team will have a huge positive impact in his life. Fall Parent
We knew immediately that OA was a safe and uplifting place, that would help our duaghter grow. I am eternally grateful for your work and care. It means the world to us. OA Parent
Coach, the article is great. The paragraphs in “Culture” provide such a powerful visual and I’m an ardent believer in what you describe. Thank you for your leadership and thank you for inspiring me to be everything I can be as a parent. OA Parent
Your teachings on character and work ethic have made me into the person that I am today. Thank you so much for everything you have done for me over the years. Your influence on my life has truly been invaluable and indelible. OA Swimmer
I listened to Zoom swimmer meeting and shook my head in agreement with all of your wisdom about culture, work ethic, and doing what it takes to be great instead of just wanting to be great. Of course, I told my child how lucky she is that she has coaches who care enough to share these critical life skills with her regularly. I would have given anything to have had such guidance as a kid and an athlete. So, thank you for taking the time to talk to these teens about important lessons and for inspiring me at the same time. OA Parent
This is another reminder of how incredibly fortunate we are to have settled here and to have found such an inspiring swim program with remarkable leaders. OA Parent
It is great to see the shining light that Orinda Aquatics puts out as a beacon to the Swimming and Sports fraternities around the world. I wish more national leaders would build a culture like this. And I am not only referring to the USA! International Coach
I can’t even describe how thankful I am for you amazing coaches. You guys have supported me physically, mentally, and emotionally through middle school and my journey into high school. I have grown as a person and as a swimmer, as you have pushed me to reach my potential in both. OA swimmer
I am reminding you both of how grateful I am that one of my children spends most of her waking time under your watchful eyes. She is becoming a faster swimmer for sure, but more importantly, I am thankful that she is becoming a stronger and more substantial person. She is learning life lessons and team-building skills that she would not pick up on in school. My child is learning about commitment, faith, and dedication, and managing disappointment and practicing resilience simultaneously. And she is also learning about ethics, alcohol, and personal responsibility, and that she comes home and shares these teachings with the rest of the family is even better. OA Parent
We thought no better time (Thanksgiving) like today to tell you how incredibly grateful we are for you. It’s hard to even put into words to be honest but we sure will try.Your program, who you are, what you nurture, and instill in these young athletes is something like we’ve never seen. It truly is one of a kind and we are beyond lucky and thankful to have our daughter and our family be a part of such a positive environment. Watching her growth in and out of the pool these last couple of months truly brings tears to our eyes. She is confident and excited to bring on the day because she knows she will be ending her day in your pool and under your guidance. Her teammates have quickly become some of her most treasured friends and she loves nothing more than supporting them and cheering them on. What a special group you have - we’ve never met such sweet and respectful kids, kids that we are so grateful to have around our daughter. Thank you for igniting this fire in her soul for swimming and hard work. This all has happened because of your goodness and what you support and instill in this community. Orinda Aquatics is so much more than just swimming and every day we are a part of this truly is an incredible blessing. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for everything you have provided for us and most importantly her in just this short amount of time. We are eternally grateful for you and look forward to every day onward with this OA family. OA Parent
I was hoping to pin you guys down for some time to talk about how you formally structure your groups and their development succession. You guys have always been, in my mind, one of the very, very few programs who run things right and keep the child engaged in the right direction. NCAA Division 1 College Coach
I wanted to express my appreciation again for the constant infusion of the theme of character with the team. The email you shared Sunday afternoon was truly impactful. My duaghter wanted me to read it and then talk about it. It really made an impression on her. It is a blessing to be a part of an organization like OA, where, outside of home, she is exposed within the team culture to topics like this.
The team Memory Book is incredible work, and honestly a treasure. Thank you for the extensive work that went into this. Celebrating the team, and knowing a little bit more about each swimmer is one more way OA feels like “family”. I don’t mean to sound ‘not’ in the present, but I already know that we will look back and know the huge impact OA played in our lives – both our daughter and our family. I’m already treasuring what will one day be memories!
One of my pillars of support has been Orinda Aquatics. The coaches have worked hard to cultivate a team with a strong focus on character, with one of the main tennants as humble servitude. My teammates and I have been immersed in the culture for years and as a result, I am fortunate to be surrounded daily by amazing athletes who are kind, selfless, and always there to help and motivate each other. OA Senior Swimmer
(after Senior Send-off recognition) "Of all of the Hall of Fame dinners, tribute events, great speeches, nothing has ever been as personal, loving, and amazingly detailed as the way the OA coaches spoke about their swimmers. It was truly special." Guest
My daughter comes home excited every night. I have never seen her this excited about a coach or team. OA Parent
I cannot express how grateful I am that my son swims at OA where he is developing as a swimmer, but also where where character is emphasized and discussed daily. OA Parent
Our family is so grateful for you guys and all the leadership and support you give our kids. The swimming is just a bonus!. Thank you so much! OA Parent
Donnie & Ronnie, I am eternally grateful for yours and team’s influence on my son. His life has been forever impacted by his participation with OA. The work ethic, personal development and friendships with other like-minded kids has been such a guiding light for him. In deepest gratitude, OA Parent
This swim team was the thing that made our move to California a seamless transition for our kids, and seven months later it's still the best thing. Best, OA Parent
Hey Coach Donnie! My family and I are doing very well. We have spent a majority of this COVID period at our vacation home. As great as these things are, the thing I miss most is being in the water with my team. My teammates, the meetings, and tough workouts have been on my mind recently, and I don't think I realized how much I enjoy every part of the team until I was without it. There was always a certain energy about the group, and I miss challenging and pushing myself with the help of my teammates. As I hope for everyone, I have taken this period as a time for self-reflection and evaluation and have spent a lot of time thinking about the person I am becoming and the person I strive to become in the future. I am excited to come back better than ever, as an athlete and a person of character. OA Teammate (13)
As I leave the youth side of swimming I want you to know how much respect I have for your program. It was easy to look at how you did things as being a very good thing to emulate. A veteran USA Swimming coach
Thank you to the entire OA family for guiding our daughter through her high school years. Excellence in sports is only one aspect that we appreciated. Character-building and leadership was just as important if not more. OA Parent
Dear Coaches, now more than ever, we are proud to be a part of the OA community and grateful to have such excellent coaches in all of you. We know coaches like you are not easy to meet. We thank you for the role you play in shaping our son into the young adult he is fast becoming. Your positive influence and moral guidance assures us that our child will make the most of his sports life and become a wonderful athlete of our society. We know that every coach is a teacher at the same time. We'd like to say Happy National Teacher Day and Teacher Appreciation Week! Thank you so much for all you do. Best regards, OA Parent
Just wanted to reach out to you to say thank you. I am always so impressed by the swimmers at OA. Yesterday while our daughter waited outside for practice, she was surrounded by the J3/J2 group, all introducing themselves and inviting her to join them. As a parent it feels amazing to know that your kids are in such a positive and supportive environment. Swimming in this case is just icing on the cake. Thank you again, and again, for your work it has immeasurable value. OA Parent
Dear Ronnie and Donnie, I’m not sure where to begin or end this message except to start with Thank You. What you have done in terms of creating and providing a vehicle for young people to excel, learn about themselves, and be surrounded with character and integrity in unmatched in today’s culture. The influence you have had on my son over the last seven plus years will stay with him forever, and in some instances those things are characteristics that even parents cannot instill in him. We as parents could not have asked for better role models and we are very fortunate to have had the opportunity to be a part of OA. Thanks again and GO OA!! Parent of Graduating Senior
Thanks! We were told how lucky we were to get you as a coach, hearing, "there is nobody better". My son comes home happy after every OA practice, always challenged. It has been such a good fit for him, and we just sincerely appreciate all that you are doing. OA Parent
I thought the Team Travel presentation at the World Clinic was inspiring. There is a lot of work in creating and maintaining a culture that enables team travel to be a productive and defining moment in the season for athletes. To be able to travel with the team and have it be a rewarding experience for the coaches as well as the athletes is only capable with the inspection of character details constantly, and for seasons. Thanks for everything. USA Swimming Coach
Hi Coach – no special reason for this note – just wanted to express our appreciation of the OA program and the coaches. I remain in awe of the collective, complicated effort it must take to make this happen, and want you to know we appreciate it every single day. I am struck by the character attributes I see continuing to develop in my daughter. I was never a doubter, but I just didn’t expect to see the impact of Character First, and the way it is infused in the entire program, so quickly. From the respect and appreciation for her fellow teammates & coaches, to the personal accountability to her team and her accountability to her own self – school, nutrition, sleep, commitments. I’m so very thankful. OA Parent
As a parent, I’m not sure I can even accurately express my appreciation of being dialed into a program that provides such attention and education to technique and injury prevention. OA Parent
I just wanted to thank you for all of the effort that you all put into each practice, and all of the time you have put into the team. Over the last few months, I have felt as though I have not only dramatically grown as a swimmer but as a person, you all have helped me grow in ways I never thought I would. I really look forward to every practice despite the challenges, even though it's a hard time to be a person in today's world, I really feel like myself at each practice. am really grateful for this opportunity and how much you all have helped me . An OA Junior Group Swimmer
I believe you can never share gratitude or a compliment too many times (but pardon my broken record) – I want to express our gratitude and thanks to you, OA and all the coaches. I continue to be amazed. We are so grateful for this and recognize every day how lucky we are. OA Parent
And as we continue to get to know our OA community, we continue to discover the layer-upon-layer the foundation of character and accountability our organization is built upon. We’re humbled and awed by this – there are no short cuts in creating this environment. OA Parent
Honesty, I think this team is a perfect match for our child. I can’t imagine her swimming anywhere else. I’ve seen her growth and happiness just soar. I know I say this all the time, but you guys really are amazing and creating a life altering experience for kids at OA! Please know that you always have our admiration and support. OA Parent
It’s programs like OA which give me hope for a better and more inclusive future. Congratulations to OA on its silver anniversary and cheers to 25 more! Form OA Parent
I’m so amazed at the team culture and openness and genuineness. OA Parent
I truly value the wisdom that you all share with the team, whether it’s the articles that we read in meetings, quotes on the workouts, or random national geographic shows about aliens. I am so grateful for the opportunity that I have received by being able to be a part of this team. I think every day about how different my life would be and how different of a person I would be without this team and these coaches to support me. It’s a special thing to be surrounded by such passionate and inspiring individuals; I find myself learning something new every time I talk to them. But anyways, I just wanted to genuinely say thank you for your unwavering commitment to us and for showing us how to become better people every day. OA swimmer
Orinda Aquatics, and specifically your role as my coach and mentor, have truly guided me to realize the immense importance that swimming has had in my life as well as changed my perspective on character and the person I want to be. Thank you so much! OA swimmer
Ronnie and Donnie, For our last assignment in English this year we got to write a thank you letter to someone that has had an impact in our lives. I decided to write to both of you because of the huge impact you have made on my life. The guidance you’ve given me over the last few years has made me a better person and swimmer. You have both put so much effort into helping me with whatever I needed, and I am so incredibly grateful for that. I’ve never met anyone more dedicated, positive, and integrity driven than you guys, and having such great role models has helped shape me to be the person I am today. You are truly amazing people and I just wanted to say thank you for everything. OA swimmer
While in college, I’ve definitely been more introspective. Additionally, throughout the process of understanding who I am and who I want to be, I am appreciating more and more the values of integrity and goodwill, perhaps because I grew up with character camp and Orinda Aquatics. The fact that you and Orinda Aquatics (athletes included) work to promote those values though swimming is more remarkable to me as I’ve left Orinda Aquatics. It is definitely the sort of leadership necessary. OA alum
Hi Ronnie and Donnie, I have never missed a Parents Meeting and I read each article that the kids bring home and often will stick them on our refrigerator for several weeks as the messages they contain are so valuable and very much aligned with our family values. I also can’t imagine what it will be like without Orinda Aquatics in MY life as they head off to college. I truly love this program and appreciate how it shapes our kids. It has become such an integral part of our lives and I thank you both and your amazing staff for that. All my best, former OA parent
Dear Coach Donnie, Just checking in. Being at OA taught me to persevere without losing sight of who I am. In my time at college, I have done my utmost to live by OA’s moniker “Character First”. I hope that I can continue to be a person who brings a positive impact to this world in my own way. OA alum
Hi Donnie and Ronnie, Your letters were the first thing I read this morning. Through my teary eyes, the letters reinforced why I love this team and each of you very much. OA Parent
There is no one who epitomizes integrity better than you! Thank you for all you have given o this sport! Your example to both the athlete and your fellow coach is pure class! WE are so fortunate to be able to call you our peer in this great profession! Take care. USA Swimming Coach/USA Swimming Board Member
I find myself torn more and more at work. As the documents and message that you are sending to me resonate with my soul, the pursuit of performance at the club seems to trump the everyday details of the former. I know they go hand in hand, with character complimenting and aiding the performance side at every step. USA Swimming coach
I just wanted to write to express my appreciation for what you do, and for what you and Ronnie have created and sustained at OA. The last three days filled me with wonder and awe at the kids, the parents, and your coaching. I believe much of it comes from the environment you have created and the behavior and attitude you model. OA Parent
I just wanted to express my sincere THANK YOU as our daughter heads off to college. You have done so much for our daughter and contributed so much to the person she is today. We have trusted you to coach our precious daughter, and it was just all so worth it. You and OA will be in her heart and quite frankly, also in ours, forever! OA Parent
We do know one thing for sure, is that she absolutely loves OA and having you as a coach! And honestly, I only wish she would have made that switch earlier. She feels she is making great progress and she is at a place where she needs to be - not only swimming wise but character wise. Your "character first" ideas and the way that you guys coach is very much in line how she thinks as a person and it reverberates exactly with her personality. I think that this is why she feels she is at the right place and she has tons of respect for all the OA coaches. I really only wish I would have suggested this move to her earlier. She always leaves practice with tons to say and analyze and is always on top of the world post practice. It is her and my favorite part of the day. OA Parent
I just wanted to thank you for the time and dedication you have put forth with our son and the entire Junior group these past two years. It has been so rewarding to watch the progression of these kids (in and out of the water) under your direction. I have never seen him happier or more focused than I have this year and we are very grateful he has had this experience at such a formative time in his life. OA Junior Group Parent
Hi Coach, thank you so much for forwarding the graduating swimmer's letter. It is truly appreciated as you never know what your child is really like when they leave the house. The OA influence is deep in our son’s veins and he talks about his experiences quite often when he is away at college. In addition, it is humbling to know that he has had such a positive influence on others. We all need to pay it forward and keep it going as I know current swimmers are doing the same. This is all possible because if the platform you provide for the young people of the community and surrounding areas. We need to get the word out more and more as OA is one of the (seemingly few) positive influences for young adults. OA Parent (alum)
My husband and I are SO impressed by your team philosophy of “Character First” and the OA program as a whole. Everything your program stands for is exactly what we have/hope to instill in our children - integrity, diligence, humility, leadership, perseverance, group/others above yourself. OA Parent
We are so grateful for the positive impact you’ve had on our daughter. Your coaching and the OA experiences she’s had both in and out of the pool have prepared her for life beyond high school. Self-awareness and respect, respect and compassion towards others, leadership, gratitude and work ethic are a few of the traits that you have both reinforced! Thank you for all the time and effort you put into not just her, but all of your OA swimmers. OA Parent
I credit OA with a large amount of my positive upbringing, and the team’s mottos and teachings continue to influence my choices and beliefs. OA Graduate
Hi Ronnie and Donnie, As I was sitting in what will be my final parent's meeting last night, I was thinking of the great value your swim program has had on our family. Please know that your message of character, culture, academics, leadership and athleticism is refreshing and inspiring for a parent to hear. The last six years at OA has been such a rewarding experience for our daughter, because it encompasses everything that you professed last night. We cannot imagine her being at any other swim club for the last six years. I don't even like to think about what it would have been like for her. Your program and your leadership are the perfect fit for her. For that, we as parents are very grateful. OA Parents
This is truly an inspirational team. OA Parent
In regard to West Point, I am constantly amazed by the type of place that it is. Everything that we learn and develop into habits are all geared towards transforming us into leaders of character. Whenever this is discussed, I am reminded of my time at Orinda Aquatics and the lessons that I learned from being a member of that team. to live and lead with honor, integrity, humility, and resilience. OA Graduate - first year at West Point
The OA mission makes such an important impact on our community. Water Polo parent
Thank you for another memorable Banquet evening. It's very inspiring to hear examples of how you truly practice what you preach. Of course, I see it in all the little things you do every day. I'm utterly grateful that my daughters have had you coaches in their lives as role models and as concrete examples of what they should aspire to. OA Parent
Thank you for helping build the character of our daughter. OA is so amazing, and I am so glad we are a part of it. OA Parent
Your vision and dedication continue to touch lives outside of OA. Another reminder of how blessed and lucky our girls (family) are to have found your program. I’m grateful every day for what your passionate team does for these kids in and out of the water. OA Parent
Thank you for envisioning and then actualizing a place like OA, where kids can thrive and learn how to be good people and fine athletes. Kids need a framework through which they can do great things and you have provided that framework! You’ve freed them from outside pressures by teaching them that they can work hard and be themselves while thinking of others. Thanks again to ALL of you! OA Parent
I often think about how fortunate we are to live here and have our girls involved in OA. You both have such a positive influence in our kids' lives. Thank you for your dedication to these swimmers: for your tireless time on the pool deck, your hours spent planning workouts, and your healthy attitude toward life and swimming. Swimming is a crucial and beloved part of our lives and thank you for bringing the best of the sport to our family. OA Parent
On this day of thanks, I’m feeling grateful that my sons are part of such a wonderful inspiring team. OA Parent
Thank you so much for the most transformative and inspiring six years of my life. My time on OA has changed me into a better person, athlete, and student. I appreciate your help in both the pool and in life. I know the lessons you've taught me will serve me well into the future. You've redefined the word "coach" for me and my teammates. You are an excellent role model and I am so thankful to have been an OA swimmer. Thank you again for everything. I would not be where I am without you. OA swimmer (2017).
I can’t thank you enough for such an incredible experience with Orinda Aquatics. Our kids grew so much in both life and swimming. We will always be grateful to you. Thank you again for what you did for our family. An OA Parent
Your message regarding character is fundamental and foundational. Without it, nothing we do as coaches will last long. Congratulations on your service of the greater good. A USA Swimming Coach
I have to share with you that I am truly impressed with your showing at Clovis. I saw the material on your website about the nature of your trip and I am going to strive to emulate your goal of a chaperone-less meet. A USA Swimming Coach
Hi Ronnie and Donnie- In our observation, our daughter’s involvement and commitment to OA got her THROUGH her freshman year. I was really surprised in the strong/intense friendships she developed through OA. She became very close to several of her older teammates. It was surprising that they would spend HOURS talking in their cars or out on walks, etc. during last year and this past summer. They may not have realized it, but those girls were acting as her mentors (swimming and life). It was an example of the strong "character" building program that you both have developed. Of course, those girls are exceptional, but they were there because of the commitment to your program. I feel that she had the equivalent of my freshman year in COLLEGE last year as far as personal development. Her life philosophy and principles have really grown this past year. I hope that she is able to do the same thing for others that her older team mates did for her. Just some thoughts and thank you, an OA Parent
I know this is way overdue, but I seem to have been struggling to find the words to tell you how great it was to have you come and speak to our Senior Group. The parents were extremely complimentary and want you to return. I have noticed the difference in how the swimmers talk to themselves and to others. I also made your packet part of our goal meetings and I was amazed with some of the ideas they had come up with especially regarding how they are going to make a difference. Once again, you have mentored me and helped me become a better coach. At our coaches meeting last week, the other coaches that were there told me about how they were using tools you talked about to make their practice groups better. A Coach
Thank you so much for sharing this great message. I (and I assume that I speak for most parents of OA swimmers) truly appreciate the values you impart to the swimmers. OA Parent
It was really through my accident that I realized (yet again) what a privilege it was to swim with OA and how I learned to really incorporate positive perspective into my everyday life. The doctors said I healed remarkably quickly and were convinced that it was the power of positive thought! A former swimmer
Comment on SwimSwam Interview with Don Heidary: "Exceptional….that article needs to be read by each and every swimmer, and parent, in the country. All sports, and businesses, should do their utmost to promote this way of life. What a different world it would be…"
Your program is an amazing gift and resource for this community, and I and my family look forward to supporting your program for years to come. Fall/Character Camp Parent
Working with you and the Orinda Aquatics team definitely help keep my confidence strong, it helped keep me grounded and helped me to continue believing in myself even in the face of adversity. I really can’t express how thankful I am for your encouragement, listening, laughter, guidance and friendship. An OA swimmer
From a Division 1 College Coach re: ASCA Fellows Program: Along those lines, it seems very clear to me (and what I want to emphasize to them) that the work you are doing in building character, ethics, leadership into your Orinda Aquatics program is leadership at the highest level. It also seems to me that you are the leading edge of a curve, pendulum perhaps, that they will see swing back in the direction of character, ethics, integrity in athletics programs during their careers in coaching.
I have finished reading the the articles and team banquet booklet you gave me. Wow! I hope you shared a bit of what was in those articles. If I did anything right for the Swimposium, it was getting you in front of the coaches, parents, and athletes. I am so grateful we had you come out and speak. Your article "Cultural Headwind" caused me to see how the focus on success keeps me from parenting my children towards the things that really matter. It is rare to hear someone speak and write so clearly on these issues. And thank you for living what you preach. You have motivated me to do better in my work as parent, wife, and employee. LSC Leader, USA Swimming
It’s programs like OA which give me hope for a better and more inclusive future. Congratulations to OA on its silver anniversary and cheers to 25 more! Form OA Parent
I’m so amazed at the team culture and openness and genuineness. OA Parent
I truly value the wisdom that you all share with the team, whether it’s the articles that we read in meetings, quotes on the workouts, or random national geographic shows about aliens. I am so grateful for the opportunity that I have received by being able to be a part of this team. I think every day about how different my life would be and how different of a person I would be without this team and these coaches to support me. I have a team who I want to show up for because I know they are doing the same thing for me and for everyone else. It’s a special thing to be surrounded by such passionate and inspiring individuals; I find myself learning something new every time I talk to them. But anyways, I just wanted to genuinely say thank you for your unwavering commitment to us and for showing us how to become better people every day. OA swimmer
Orinda Aquatics, and specifically your role as my coach and mentor, have truly guided me to realize the immense importance that swimming has had in my life as well as changed my perspective on character and the person I want to be. Thank you so much! OA swimmer
Ronnie and Donnie, for our last assignment in English this year we got to write a thank you letter to someone that has had an impact in our lives. I decided to write to both of you because of the huge impact you have made on my life. The guidance you’ve given me over the last few years has made me a better person and swimmer. You have both put so much effort into helping me with whatever I needed, and I am so incredibly grateful for that. I’ve never met anyone more dedicated, positive, and integrity driven than you guys, and having such great role models has helped shape me to be the person I am today. You are truly amazing people and I just wanted to say thank you for everything. OA swimmer
While in college, I’ve definitely been more introspective about the privileges I receive, who I am, and the abundant negatives in the history of our culture and society. The one thing from high school that am thinking about as I am writing this is your advice to make the most of the opportunity to be a student athlete. Now that I am in college, the things I miss the most from school are the activities, for me that was swimming. Additionally, throughout the process of understanding who I am and who I want to be, I am appreciating more and more the values of integrity and goodwill. Perhaps because I grew up with character camp and polar bears, the fact that you and Orinda Aquatics (athletes included) work to promote those values though swimming is more remarkable to me as I’ve left Orinda Aquatics. It is definitely the sort of leadership necessary. OA alum
Hi Ronnie and Donnie, I have never missed a Parents Meeting and I read each article that the kids bring home and often times will stick them on our refrigerator for several weeks as the messages they contain are so valuable and very much aligned with our family values. I also can’t imagine what it will be like without Orinda Aquatics in MY life as they head off to college so I may reach out to you both one day to see if I can help out and volunteer in any way. I truly love this program and appreciate how it shapes our kids. It has become such an integral part of our lives and I thank you both and your amazing staff for that. All my best, former OA parent
Dear Coach Donnie, Just checking in. Being at OA taught me to persevere and chase my goals without losing sight of who I am. I look back at my time in OA nostalgically, as per this email. In my time at college, I have done my utmost to live by OA’s moniker “Character First”; there have been times when it’s been hard, but no truly important lesson is ever implemented easily. I hope that I can continue to be a person who brings a positive impact to this world in my own way. OA alum
Hi Donnie and Ronnie, Your letters were the first thing I read this morning. Through my teary eyes, the letters reinforced why I love this team and each of you very much. I printed the newsletter and just put it on our breakfast counter for the kids see and reread. OA Parent
There is no one who epitomizes integrity better than you! Thank you for all you have given o this sport! Your example to both the athlete and your fellow coach is pure class! WE are so fortunate to be able to call you our peer in this great profession! Take care. USA Swimming Coach/USA Swimming Board Member
I find myself torn more and more at work. As the documents and message that you are sending to me resonate with my soul, the pursuit of performance at the club seems to trump the everyday details of the former. I know they go hand in hand, with character complimenting and aiding the performance side at every step. USA Swimming coach
I just wanted to write to express my appreciation for what you do, and for what you and Ronnie have created and sustained at OA. The last three days filled me with wonder and awe at the kids, the parents, and your coaching. I believe much of it comes from the environment you have created and the behavior and attitude you model. OA Parent
I just wanted to express my sincere THANK YOU as our daughter heads off to college. You have done so much for our daughter and contributed so much to the person she is today. We have trusted you to coach our precious daughter, and it was just all so worth it. You and OA will be in her heart and quite frankly, also in ours, forever! OA Parent
Hi Donnie, we do know one thing for sure, is that she absolutely loves OA and having you as a coach! And honestly, I only wish she would have made that switch earlier. She feels she is making great progress and she is at a place where she needs to be - not only swimming wise but character wise. Your "character first" ideas and the way that you guys coach is very much in line how she thinks as a person and it reverberates exactly with her personality. I think that this is why she feels she is at the right place and she has tons of respect for all the OA coaches. I really only wish I would have suggested this move to her earlier. She always leaves practice with tons to say and analyze and is always on top of the world post practice. It is her and my favorite part of the day. OA Parent
Coaches, thank you for always reinforcing this life lesson. OA Parent
I just wanted to thank you for the time and dedication you have put forth with son and the entire Junior group these past two years. It has been so rewarding to watch the progression of these kids (in and out of the water) under your direction. I have never seen him happier or more focused than I have this year and we are very grateful he has had this experience at such a formative time in his life. OA Junior Group Parent
Hi Coach, thank you so much for forwarding the graduating swimmer's letter. It is truly appreciated as you never know what your child is really like when they leave the house. The OA influence is deep in our son’s veins and he talks about his experiences quite often when he is away at college. In addition, it is humbling to know that he has had such a positive influence on others. We all need to pay it forward and keep it going as I know current swimmers are doing the same. This is all possible because if the platform you provide for the young people of the community and surrounding areas. We need to get the word out more and more as OA is one of the (seemingly few) positive influences for young adults. OA Parent (alum)
Thank you again for forwarding me this Senior letter. It means a lot to know that I was able to give back to the team that gave me so much in terms of leadership, character, and personal growth. I am humbled that I influenced them in such a way. OA Alum
My husband and I are SO impressed by your team philosophy of “Character First” and the OA program as a whole. Everything your program stands for is exactly what we have/hope to instill in our children - integrity, diligence, humility, leadership, perseverance, group/others above yourself.
We are so grateful for the positive impact you’ve had on our daughter. Your coaching and the OA experiences she’s had both in and out of the pool have prepared her for life beyond high school. Self-awareness and respect, respect and compassion towards others, leadership, gratitude and work ethic are a few of the traits that you have both reinforced! Thank you for all the time and effort you put into not just her, but all of your OA swimmers. OA Parent
I credit OA with a large amount of my positive upbringing, and the team’s mottos and teachings still continue to influence my choices and beliefs. OA Graduate
I want to thank you for all that you two and OA have done for my children. OA is so much more than a swim team. It has been a safe and supportive environment where they learned commitment, dedication, leadership, hard work, cooperation, discipline and so many life skills that are not found in many places these days. OA is a rare gem tucked away in Moraga. I’m so grateful we found it and so thankful for all that you taught the girls. Other than my husband and I and God, you have had the greatest impact on their lives, and the support and encouragement that has gone well beyond their high school lives is invaluable. Thank you again. OA Graduated Parent
Hi Ronnie and Donnie, As I was sitting in what will be my final parent's meeting last night, I was thinking of the great value your swim program has had on our family. Please know that your message of character, culture, academics, leadership and athleticism is refreshing and inspiring for a parent to hear. The last six years at OA has been such a rewarding experience for our daughter, because it encompasses everything that you professed last night. We cannot imagine her being at any other swim club for the last six years. I don't even like to think about what it would have been like for her. Your program and your leadership are the perfect fit for her. For that, we as parents are very grateful. OA Parents
This is truly an inspirational team. OA Parent
In regard to West Point, I am constantly amazed by the type of place that it is. Everything that we learn and develop into habits are all geared towards transforming us into leaders of character. Whenever this is discussed, I am reminded of my time at Orinda Aquatics and the lessons that I learned from being a member of that team. to live and lead with honor, integrity, humility and resilience. Even though times can get very stressful here, the character of the people here make it such a constructive and helpful place. At almost any time of the day or night, if you are struggling with something, there will be someone waiting to jump up and take the opportunity to help. OA Graduate - first year at West Point
Thank you for the opportunity to contribute not just to the team, but to an organization that has meant so much to my girls. OA Volunteer at a high level
Dear Ronnie and Donnie, I’m not sure where to begin or end this message except to start with Thank You. What you have done in terms of creating and providing a vehicle for young people to excel, learn about themselves, and be surrounded with character and integrity in unmatched in today’s culture. The influence you have had on my son over the last seven plus years will stay with him forever, and in some instances those things are characteristics that even parents cannot instill in him. We as parents could not have asked for better role models and we are very fortunate to have had the opportunity to be a part of OA. My only complaint is that he cannot continue with you for a longer period of time. Thanks again and GO OA!! Parent of Graduating Senior
I do believe that OA's focus on character 'moves the needle' and provides the year over year personal growth that takes time. Thank you for your continued focus in this area. Parent
The OA mission makes such an important impact on our community. Water Polo parent
Thank you for another memorable Banquet evening. It's very inspiring to hear examples of how you truly practice what you preach. Of course, I see it in all the little things you do every day. I'm utterly grateful that my daughters have had you coaches in their lives as role models and as concrete examples of what they should aspire to. OA Parent
Thank you for helping build the character of our daughter. OA is so amazing, and I am so glad we are a part of it. OA Parent
Your vision and dedication continue to touch lives outside of OA. Another reminder of how blessed and lucky our girls (family) are to have found your program. I’m grateful every day for what your passionate team does for these kids in and out of the water. OA Parent
Thank you for envisioning and then actualizing a place like OA, where kids can thrive and learn how to be good people and fine athletes. Kids need a framework through which they can do great things and you have provided that framework! You’ve freed them from outside pressures by teaching them that they can work hard and be themselves while thinking of others. Thanks again to ALL of you! You are not only creating a great team you are a great team!! OA Parent
I often think about how fortunate we are to live here and have our girls involved in OA. You both have such a positive influence in our kids' lives. Thank you for your dedication to these swimmers: for your tireless time on the pool deck, your hours spent planning workouts, and your healthy attitude toward life and swimming. Swimming is a crucial and beloved part of our lives and thank you for bringing the best of the sport to our family. OA Parent
On this day of thanks, I’m feeling grateful that my sons are part of such a wonderful inspiring team. OA Parent
Thank you so much for the most transformative and inspiring six years of my life. My time on OA has changed me into a better person, athlete, and student. I appreciate your help in both the pool and in life. I know the lessons you've taught me will serve me well into the future. You've redefined the word "coach" for me and my teammates. You are an excellent role model and I am so thankful to have been an OA swimmer. Thank you again for everything. I would not be where I am without you. OA swimmer (2017).
I can’t thank you enough for such an incredible experience with Orinda Aquatics. Our kids grew so much in both life and swimming. We will always be grateful to you. Thank you again for what you did for our family. An OA Parent
Ronnie and Donnie, for our last assignment in English this year we got to write a thank you letter to someone that has had an impact in our lives. I decided to write to both of you because of the huge impact you have made on my life. The guidance you’ve given me over the last few years has made me a better person and swimmer. You have both put so much effort into helping me with whatever I needed, and I am so incredibly grateful for that. I’ve never met anyone more dedicated, positive, and integrity driven than you guys, and having such great role models has helped shape me to be the person I am today. You are truly amazing people and I just wanted to say thank you for everything. OA swimmer
Good seeing you last weekend and, of course, being able to use your team as a shining example of what a team should act like! USA Swimming Coach This is such an amazing and generous gift. Your support means a lot to me and it is an incredible testament to what you stand for in the larger picture of swimming and developing people. -Scott Thompson, Oaklantis We are so fortunate to be a part of this amazing team. Hearing my kids talk about the coaches, and their teammates, provides a constant reminder that we get so much more out of this experience than we could ever possibly put in. Thank you for all that you do every day. OA Parent Your passion, ironclad vision, and team are such an inspiration. I feel energized and excited about coaching and the future. USA Swimming Coach The Jamboree shows what an amazing team OA is. All the Character First aspects SHINE and you can see that everybody feels so proud to be a part of this team. Seeing the Sea Serpents swim is always an amazing experience and it has an incredible impact on all of the kids. -OA Parent
My husband and I are SO impressed by your team philosophy of “Character First” and the OA program as a whole. Everything your program stands is exactly what we have/hope to instill in our children- integrity, diligence, humility, leadership, perseverance, group/others above yourself. I just think this is an amazing program that is truly unique and life-changing.
As I mentioned to each of you, I have never missed a Parents Meeting since the kids joined the Polar Bear Program when they were nine years of age. I read each article that they bring hone and often times will stick them on our refrigerator for several weeks as the messages they contain are so valuable and very much aligned with our family values. I truly love this program and appreciate how it shapes our kids. It has become such an integral part of our lives and I thank you and your amazing staff for that.
I continue to be impressed, floored really, by the impact that you have on people’s lives. I know I only swam for you as a 10 and under, but the impression you left has lasted my entire life. You set the standard for what coaching should be, in my mind. I have been pouring over your ASCA binder, "Developing High-Character Athletes and High Character Teams" this year. It is an extremely dense collection of lessons and experiences that resonate with me so much. I could only read a little bit at a time before needing to sit with what I read to really digest the power of the words you put together. It speaks so deeply to me and I wish I could articulate the importance of character to our club more fully. I wish I could come back and observe you on deck, as I find myself looking for true mentors that are coaching to the deeper meaning and purpose of sports. I just wanted to reach out and say thank you. I strive to be a better person and a better coach every day, and your work has been a huge source of my inspiration and teaching. Former swimmer/current coach Although the team has only been a part of my son's life for two years, its impact on him - your impact on him - has been immeasurable. And then there are the parents. Experiencing the willingness of so many to give of their time, attention and energy to help has been humbling. How could I not willingly contribute my time to such an organization? What you have created in OA is truly amazing. We feel so very fortunate that our son will grow up surrounded by the young people, parents and coaches of OA. Parent
Hi Coach, thank you so much for forwarding the graduating swimmer's letter. It is truly appreciated as you never know what your child is really like when they leave the house. The OA influence is deep in our sons veins and he talks about his experiences quite often when he is away at college. In addition, it is humbling to know that he has had such a positive influence on others. We all need to pay it forward and keep it going as I know current swimmers are doing the same. This is all possible because if the platform you provide for the young people of the community and surrounding areas. We need to get the word out more and more as OA is one of the (seemingly few) positive influences for young adults. OA Parent (alum)
My husband and I are SO impressed by your team philosophy of “Character First” and the OA program as a whole. Everything your program stands for is exactly what we have/hope to instill in our children - integrity, diligence, humility, leadership, perseverance, group/others above yourself.
We are so grateful for the positive impact you’ve had on our daughter. Your coaching and the OA experiences she’s had both in and out of the pool have prepared her for life beyond high school. Self-awareness and respect, respect and compassion towards others, leadership, gratitude and work ethic are a few of the traits that you have both reinforced! Thank you for all the time and effort you put into not just her, but all of your OA swimmers. OA Parent I credit OA with a large amount of my positive upbringing, and the team’s mottos and teachings still continue to influence my choices and beliefs. OA Graduate
I want to thank you for all that you two and OA have done for my children. OA is so much more than a swim team. It has been a safe and supportive environment where they learned commitment, dedication, leadership, hard work, cooperation, discipline and so many life skills that are not found in many places these days. OA is a rare gem tucked away in Moraga. I’m so grateful we found it and so thankful for all that you taught the girls. Other than my husband and I and God, you have had the greatest impact on their lives, and the support and encouragement that has gone well beyond their high school lives is invaluable. Thank you again. OA Graduated Parent
This is truly an inspirational team. OA Parent
In regards to West Point, I am constantly amazed by the type of place that it is. Everything that we learn and develop into habits are all geared towards transforming us into leaders of character. Whenever this is discussed, I am reminded of my time at Orinda Aquatics and the lessons that I learned from being a member of that team.. to live and lead with honor, integrity, humility and resilience. Even though times can get very stressful here, the character of the people here make it such a constructive and helpful place. At almost any time of the day or night, if you are struggling with something, there will be someone waiting to jump up and take the opportunity to help. Megan Colpo, OA Graduate - first year at West Point
Thank you for the opportunity to contribute not just to the team, but to an organization that has meant so much to my girls. OA Volunteer at a high level
Dear Ronnie and Donnie, I’m not sure where to begin or end this message except to start with Thank You. What you have done in terms of creating and providing a vehicle for young people to excel, learn about themselves, and be surrounded with character and integrity in unmatched in today’s culture. The influence you have had on my son over the last seven plus years will stay with him forever, and in some instances those things are characteristics that even parents cannot instill in him. We as parents could not have asked for better role models and we are very fortunate to have had the opportunity to be a part of OA. My only complaint is that he cannot continue with you for a longer period of time. Thanks again and GO OA!! Parent of Graduating Senior
I do believe that OA's focus on character 'moves the needle' and provides the year over year personal growth that takes time. Thank you for your continued focus in this area. Parent
The OA mission makes such an important impact on our community. Water Polo parent
Thank you for another memorable Banquet evening. It's very inspiring to hear examples of how you truly practice what you preach. Of course I see it in all the little things you do every day. I'm utterly grateful that my daughters have had you coaches in their lives as role models and as concrete examples of what they should aspire to. OA Parent
Thank you for helping build the character of our daughter. OA is so amazing and I am so glad we are a part of it. OA Parent
Your vision and dedication continues to touch lives outside of OA. Another reminder of how blessed and lucky our girls (family) are to have found your program. I’m grateful every day for what your passionate team does for these kids in and out of the water. OA Parent
Thank you for envisioning and then actualizing a place like OA, where kids can thrive and learn how to be good people and fine athletes. Kids need a framework through which they can do great things and you have provided that framework! You’ve freed them from outside pressures by teaching them that they can work hard and be themselves while thinking of others. Thanks again to ALL of you! You are not only creating a great team you are a great team!! OA Parent
I often think about how fortunate we are to live here and have our girls involved in OA. You both have such a positive influence in our kids' lives. Thank you for your dedication to these swimmers: for your tireless time on the pool deck, your hours spent planning workouts, and your healthy attitude toward life and swimming. Swimming is a crucial and beloved part of our lives, and thank you for bringing the best of the sport to our family. OA Parent
Thank you so much for the most transformative and inspiring six years of my life. My time on OA has changed me into a better person, athlete, and student. I appreciate your help in both the pool and in life. I know the lessons you've taught me will serve me well into the future. You've redefined the word "coach" for me and my teammates. You are an excellent role model and I am so thankful to have been an OA swimmer. Thank you again for everything. I would not be where I am Without you. OA swimmer (2017).
I cant thank you enough for such an incredible experience with Orinda Aquatics. Our kids grew so much in both life and swimming. We will always be grateful to you. Thank you again for what you did for our family. An OA Parent
Thank you for three great years and an invaluable experience. The growth our son has realized, not only with swimming but his own personal work ethic, is amazing. He has developed such a great group of core friends at OA. Thank you for having a special place in your hearts for him as you encouraged him through his time on the team. He now moves on as a confident, grounded adult. OA Parent
We would like to thank you again so much for everything you and the entire OA program has done for our son. It has truly been the most important thing in his life the last three years - forming his character, developing him as an athlete, and finding his “people” - friends and coaches he will treasure forever. OA Parents
I just also want to say OA and the coaches she has had have really done a stellar job of setting her up for success, not to mention your motto of character first. She really has embraced it and does her best to live by that each and every day. Thank you for creating such an amazing environment for kids to develop and grow. We are so proud to be a part of the OA family. Thank you! OA Parent
Thank you. Aside from their parents, you have been the single most influential adult in their lives throughout their childhoods. Your significance in their lives has been powerful. The character building lessons and the life values than you worked along with us to instill have been invaluable, and we will be forever grateful. I’m very proud of their thoughtfulness and kindness, and the way they handle failures and setbacks and use determination and perseverance to overcome challenges. I hope that you continuing to do meaningful things for the sport of swimming and young athletes. Parent
Our family is incredibly grateful for all of your support over the years. Our son would not have developed into the young man that he is without spending countless hours in the pool and learning valuable life lessons as a member of Orinda Aquatics. OA Parent
Coach Donnie, Thank you very much for taking the time to write the meet notes. We have learned the OA values and perspective over the years and become ardent believers. Swimming is much more than about times. You are also teaching them how to approach life and those are lessons that they cannot learn from school, violin/piano lessons, and not even from us as parents. We appreciate your dedication to the kids and the team. Please don't hesitate to call on us if we could be of any help to the team. Thank you, OA Parent
You had a profound positive influence on our kids, and their parents. You are a true gentleman that excels in his profession and understands young people; teaching them life lessons that are more important than the swimming. Parent
I always appreciate the uplifting articles you share and the team culture you have created on Orinda Aquatics. You have no idea how much peace of mind it is to know that my son is on a team that is such a positive environment. Thanks for all you do, OA Parent
I feel very blessed that my son and I are a part of OA. Parent
You, as their coach, had a profoundly positive influence on our kids (and their parents). You are a true gentleman that excels in his profession and understands young people; teaching them life lessons that are far more important than the swimming. Thank you! Parent
Ron and Don, I am doing a presentation at the ASCA World Clinic on Grit and how to build it into people. I was a Division I women's swim coach for 27 years. I have read your work on character for ASCA and plan to incorporate parts into my ASCA presentation. I want to thank you for your commitment to building a program based on character. The results speak for themselves. Best wishes, Jim
Thanks again for your leadership in providing a positive atmosphere and growth opportunity for the swim community. High School swimming lasts only 4 years but the lessons you teach will last a lifetime. Parent
OA is a huge part of my life, and I can’t thank you enough for continuing to include me. By the way, I was on the deck this past Saturday, standing with Ronnie on the side of the pool toward the end of the workout, and I saw one of the swimmers get up the deck and ask everybody to get up with him so he could make an announcement about a charity event, which sounds impressive on its own. But I was mostly taken aback by how everyone got out of the pool, formed a semi-circle around him, and listened respectfully and intently, as if they were taking directions from the head coach. It was awesome and also a little bit eerie. I don’t think my group was THAT well behaved! You have a really good group, and it is a testament to all of you. Jesse Krompier
Dear Ronnie and Donnie- Hello! I hope this email finds you well. It's been so long! I will never forget you both and OA, because while you were incredible coaches, you never lost sight of the scope of life outside the pool. You helped me find a good college fit, and you always took into consideration, with great care, and great kindness, my family situation and my outside interests. I definitely attribute even the possibility of my continued love of swimming to OA. I know too many people who have burned out and started to hate the very sport that they center their lives around. OA, in retrospect, taught me the importance of loving what you do. OA Alum
Thanks for all that you do to make the Clovis travel trip such a positive team experience and to make OA a great environment for the kids. We are so thankful to have had the chance to be a part of this team. OA Parent
Our child is very proud to be on Orinda Aquatics and feels very much a part of the Charter First family. He has grown tremendously as a swimmer under your coaching and has made some great friends. We also have to add that joining OA was one of the best decisions our family has ever made. OA Parent
This Thanksgiving, as I look back on what I am truly grateful for, I can't help but realize all that this team has given me. I am truly thankful to be a part of such a great team, community, and even family. Thank you for all that you've done for me over the past 3 years; I would not be the person I am today without your guidance and advice. I hope you are enjoying today with friends and family, happy Thanksgiving! OA Senior
Thank you for teaching them about values and about doing what's right --- Character First! We are so lucky to be a part of the Orinda Aquatic organization. Thank you! OA Parent
Hi Don/Ron, I can’t thank you enough for sharing your material with me. It’s pure gold. I’m doing my best here to make people aware of Orinda Aquatics’ outlook and values. For example, I’m speaking at a national clinic this Saturday about the fundamentals of revitalizing swimming in our country and have included a section on the work you are doing in my presentation. An International Coach
Donnie, I really appreciate Orinda aquatics now. You're right, our team culture and attitude is special and rare. I just finished my first college visit, and it's definitely given me a different view on things. An OA swimmer
Our kids have come to really love this team. We really appreciate the great coaching and words of wisdom, given to our kids by all of you. We know that is something you don't find at every team. Thanks again, for everything you do to make this team a wonderful experience for our children! OA Parent
I am interested in purchasing some Orinda Aquatics swim caps. We saw your team at Senior Zones and were very impressed, and I am very interested in supporting your mission. Please let me know if this is possible. Please know that folks in the swimming world are taking note of Orinda Aquatics and seeing the difference you all are making, both to your team and to the swimming community at large. We are so impressed and applaud your efforts. Many thanks for the example you are setting.
I want to thank you for the wonderful presentations at this past weekend’s ASCA Age Group Coaches Clinic in San Diego. I am always thrilled with the conferences and come back with tons of ideas to implement in my community and in our tiny little team. Your philosophy and ideas are wonderful and inspired a lot of ideas for change. Comment from an ASCA Clinic
Thank you again for your positive influence on both our children. You have all had a large and very positive impact on their lives, as well as their maturity, fitness, and college direction. You have given him all the tools to succeed in all aspects of life. You all are doing really good work and have a profoundly positive effect on the entire team. You should be very proud of your accomplishments. OA Parent
Thanks for allowing me to watch your practice and learn about your club. You guys have built something special! College coach
You have jointly created and fostered such a loving environment in OA, which has merged an extraordinary culture of character and humility with significant success at the individual and team level in an unprecedented academic backdrop. OA parent
We cannot thank you enough for the invaluable experience our son has received under your tutelage and training at Orinda Aquatics. OA has changed his life. OA parent
Our 12 year old got up and cleared and washed all the dishes tonight - without being asked!!! Delighted, I thanked him and let him know how much I appreciated it and how lovely it was! Then it occurred to me that maybe this was part of his Character Camp "homework" - which he did confirm - but still what an amazing gift!!! So we ask you, any chance camp can last all summer and you could have him mowing the lawn soon??? OA Parent
Ronnie and Donnie, Our son mentioned that you talked to the kids in a group meeting about the situation involving alcohol on a college campus, and we just wanted to thank you for doing that. We are grateful that our son is in an environment, outside of home, where he has adult mentors that care and are willing to discuss hard topics. As parents, we want our children to be exposed to adults who share our desire for raising compassionate children who will contribute their talents in a positive way. We appreciate your efforts in and out of the pool. Thank you. Sincerely, an OA Parent
Thank you for your tireless giving and effort on behalf of all of the kids. I know and see frequently the environment you have created with the team and it is a gift to every athlete and by extension to every family. OA Parent
Your book has become required meeting for our entire coaching staff. Thanks for fighting the good fight in regards to making the development of character within our athletes a top priority in USA Swimming. Your team is a model program for other’s to learn from. USA Swimming Coach
Hi Ronnie and Donnie- Something that you all said last week at the parent meeting really connected with me. With so much stuff the kids have to do with school and swimming. What has to give? The social life.
In our observation, our daughter’s involvement and commitment to OA got her THROUGH her freshman year. I was really surprised in the strong/intense friendships she developed through OA. She became very close to several of her older team mates. It was surprising that they would spend HOURS talking in their cars or out on walks, etc. during last year and this past summer. They may not have realized it, but those girls were acting as her mentors (swimming and life). Personally, I would never have hung around a freshman, but maybe guys are different that way, or perhaps this was an example of the strong "character" building program that you both have developed. I personally believe it's the latter. Of course those girls are exceptional, but they were there because of the commitment to your program.
I feel that she had the equivalent of my freshman year in COLLEGE last year as far as personal development. Luckily she is pretty communicative with us about the goings on of the average teen age kid around her so we have no illusions that it is all sweet and sugary. However, we feel very good about what she takes away from OA as a whole and applies it to her everyday life. Her life philosophy and principles have really grown this past year. She really appreciates what she gets out of OA at "the end of the day". I hope that she is able to do the same thing for others that her older team mates did for her. Just some thoughts and thank you, an OA Parent
I know this is way overdue, but I seem to have been struggling to find the words to tell you how great it was to have you come and speak to our Senior Group. The parents were extremely complimentary and want you to return. I have noticed the difference in how the swimmers talk to themselves and to others. I also made your packet part of our goal meetings and I was amazed with some of the ideas they had come up with especially regarding how they are going to make a difference. Once again, you have mentored me and helped me become a better coach. At our coaches meeting last week, the other coaches that were there told me about how they were using tools you talked about to make their practice groups better.
Thank you so much for sharing this great message. I (and I assume that I speak for most parents of OA swimmers) truly appreciate the values you and Ron impart to the swimmers. OA Parent
Comment on SwimSwam Interview with Don Heidary: "Exceptional….that article needs to be read by each and every swimmer, and parent, in the country. All sports, and businesses, should do their utmost to promote this way of life. What a different world it would be…"
Your program is an amazing gift and resource for this community, and I and my family look forward to supporting your program for years to come. Fall/Character Camp Parent
Working with you and the Orinda Aquatics team definitely help keep my confidence strong, it helped keep me grounded and helped me to continue believing in myself even in the face of adversity. I really can’t express how thankful I am for your encouragement, listening, laughter, guidance and friendship. An OA swimmer
From a Division 1 College Coach re: ASCA Fellows Program: Along those lines, it seems very clear to me (and what I want to emphasize to them) that the work you are doing in building character, ethics, leadership into your Orinda Aquatics program is leadership at the highest level. It also seems to me that you are the leading edge of a curve, pendulum perhaps, that they will see swing back in the direction of character, ethics, integrity in athletics programs during their careers in coaching.
The reason I would like them to attend your course is to help them get a jump start into the Teaching Character First concepts that guide your team and your teaching. In its most basic form, the Fellows Program itself intends to help a group of young coaches get “jump started” into key ideas that are central to leadership roles needed in our sport in our country.
I am impressed with everything about your program, and mostly that swimming is a great experience for your athletes and your coaches. You include the athlete as a person, and that goes a long way. College coach
We as families here at OA are so incredibly honored and lucky to have you working daily with our kids. We are very proud and grateful for what you do for our swimmers first as young people and secondly as developing athletes. Thanks for working as hard as you do. OA parent.
Congrats on a great article on SwimSwam. It's fantastic that the media is recognizing integrity and character, and not just performance. You two have been a major influence in a lot of young swimmers' lives. It is an honor to work with both of you and OA. Consultant
The OA program had a profound impact on my son. He found self-esteem, a sense of community, and discipline at a time he desperately needed to change things in his life if he wanted to fulfill his college dreams. We can’t thank you enough for the exceptional program you run. Parent
Once again thank you for all that you have done for me the past four years in high school. I do not think that without you I would be the person I am today or be attending the college I am. I will miss you. You do so much for the community and deserve a ton of thanks. Thanks for doing so much for the team both in the pool and helping the next generation of young adults be there best. A swimmer/graduate
Dear Don, Thank you for your presentation today. I was very impressed with your talk. I can see how your philosophy can be applied to many other areas, as well as coaching. I think it applies to leadership in so many life areas. I am a coach and a teacher and struggle with getting my teenagers to understand what it takes to lead. The mind set and character that has to be in place to be an effective leader. I thought your presentation presented a different outlook on coaching/leading. It asked the leaders to look at themselves, to take responsibility for their actions and how those actions affected those under them. This is what I am trying to get these young leaders to understand. Coach
Ron and Don - we were all very impressed at how polite and grateful all the swimmers were on Saturday. Testimony to the fantastic leadership and life skills you are providing them with. Was very refreshing. See you tomorrow. Nick Folker
Hi Ronnie and Donnie!This is Brian O'Hara, I hope you are both doing well! I am at UC Santa Cruz currently and graduating this March. I wanted to let you know that when I went to the athletic facility on campus this past weekend and noticed some familiar logos from other teams I remember competing against, SRVLA, PASA, etc. I had this huge bittersweet feeling overwhelm me standing on the deck seeing kids warm-up, others huddled within their groups chatting to pass time, hearing the announcers trying to gather timers for finals, coaches around the pool under the pop-ups; all the memories during my five years at OA came back while taking in everything happening, I wanted nothing more than to be a part of that swim meet. I decided to talk to some swimmers to find out about the meet and then I began telling them how lucky they are and how jealous I am because I really miss being part of a team. They thought I was crazy.With all of that backstory, I just wanted to tell you that I am forever grateful for the Character First attitude that Orinda Aquatics demands from their swimmers. During my time I was focused on my swimming and I thought the life messages were nothing more than a reminder for being positive (whether we were talking as a group before a meet about properly warming up and warming down or in the community room talking about everything from helping others to managing finances). I have begun to realize that I was surrounded by amazing people who helped encourage positive values: the coaches (helping push me to new limits in the pool and developing my character outside of it), my teammates (motivating me in practice and cheering me during meets), and the parents (helping run the meets, and taking responsibilities/volunteering for positions that would look like jobs to many others). OA has an incredible community and since then I haven't been able to experience the positive influence and structure that OA provided to its swimmers. Despite that I am no longer going to practices anymore your influence in my life is enduring. Orinda Aquatics has instilled a lasting motivation to become a more fulfilled person for myself a positive influence for others, thank you for helping me become the person I am and for continuing to help and coach others to become more prepared and successful, in the pool and in life. I will try to stop by after I graduate in a couple months and say hello!Brian O'Hara
I am such a believer in your program and just thankful we have had an opportunity to participate in it. OA Parent of graduate.
I've read the handout/book! I love it! What a great "theory" and I love that results confirm the theory! It will inspire me to continue with my own kids these same values. Thanks so much for sharing it with me, and for aspiring to teach kids more than just how to swim fast!
I'm thrilled that my daughter made the decision last year to move from summer rec swimming to Orinda Aquatics. She is so happy being in the water/swimming, and although she may never be a super-star in the swimming world, she is a super-star in my world, as I admire her dedication to something that helps to build her self-confidence. I love the "Character First" motto of OA, and the leadership that is demonstrated by the coaches, and the older swimmers. OA Parent
I just wanted to wish you and your loved ones a wonderful Thanksgiving. I am so grateful for learning about Orinda Aquatics, and even more so for the opportunity to get to know you and learn from you. Through you, I have found so much more meaning, direction, and purpose in coaching, and that has translated into feeling far more happiness and fulfillment in my life. For all of that, I offer my heartfelt thanks. A USA Swimming Coach
Your program is affecting hundreds for the better. USA Swimming Coach
Hello Don. Another great presentation! I enjoy hearing about your success with those young folks very much. It gives me hope each time. I also see the applications in the business world and think the students do as well. Orinda families are very lucky to have you and your brother! St. Mary's Faculty
It is I and the other OA parents who should be thanking you for the unending time, effort and direction you commit to our children. OA offers an all-too-rare environment these days where the kids receive care, guidance, are held to high standards and personally accountable for their actions. I am fortunate have such an opportunity to offer my son and enjoy the chance to support the organization. OA Parent
Thank you for your interest in our University and our program. Before I go any further, you need to know that I hold your coach and his brother in the highest regard. The things they are doing in pool and out of the pool truly are an inspiration. I've spent almost as much time on your team's website as I have putting my club team's website together. They are honorable men and I would relish the idea of having a member of Orinda Aquatics in our program. College Coach.
Hi Donnie and Ronnie, - prior to my coaching debut, I read the 'putting character first' PowerPoint that you guys had developed. It was very compelling. I definitely worked parts into my philosophy as I developed my style over the course of the season. I also used your thoughts as a mental touchstone whenever i felt like getting upset. Additionally, I was forced to think of how my usage of alcohol related to the kids, and I made sure i never had a drink prior to or during any situation (practice, party, etc.) where I would be interacting with the players. I can't thank you enough for your tacit mentorship. Hopefully I will make a difference to someone else along the way as well. Parent/Coach
Thanks is really not enough in words, OA is an amazing place for so many young people, it gives us great hope. Thank you for everything! OA Parent
Coach Don and Ron, After 35 years in USA coaching I got out two years ago. I read with interest your Ethical coaching article. I loved every bit of it. I had a revelation around coaching year 3 or 4 (age:25-28) that winning was ok but very shallow without some of the ethics and character you mention throughout the article. My son is now coaching. Your article will be mandatory reading. I will cut out certain parts for myself to post piece by piece for my team’s bulletin board. Thanks so much for putting on paper something that I too truly believe in. Building the person builds the program and is far more rewarding for the kids, parents and us. If only all coaches in all sports would implement your ideas….what a world it would be. C
Dear Coaches Donnie, Ronnie, Matt and Marc, My child recently just joined the team but the impressions that you have made in the last two months on her are nothing short of incredible. Although she is a really good kid already, whatever you have all been telling her in the team meetings, on the pool deck and in the water has had a great impact. Last week, she apologized to me, quite sincerely, for having a sullen attitude. She also thanked me for all the driving that I do for her. And tonight after I picked her up, she told me about a kid in her school who was having trouble recently and it had been bothering her and it was time to tell me about it. This kicked off a lengthy discussion about drugs and alcohol that was candid and honest and you all gave me the springboard to have a very positive, helpful conversation with my daughter. I wanted to let you know that I very much appreciate all the hard work that you put into these kids, helping them to become better people and grow up well in so many different ways. Thank you. New Parent
Good morning. Unfortunately I will not be at the meeting tonight. I look forward to my children spending another year in your remarkable program and would like to take this opportunity to thank you for all you have done for them. Best wishes. OA Parent
Character was never modeled for me as child, but in the past two years I have worked to build it for me and my child - in life and in swimming. The benefits are a closer family, solid relationships, and a future that looks much brighter than the past. OA impacts not only the lives of the kids but people like me (a parent). Keep up the good work. OA Parent
Hi, I was hoping to have the opportunity to see one of you this morning to Thank You, and congratulate you on a wonderful camp for these young swimmers. My daughter has come home every night to enthusiastically share the objectives she learned and reviewed in the water that day. There is still one day remaining, but from our standpoint, this camp is already a huge success and should be a requirement of all middle school aquatic athletes in the area. If you could have been a fly on the wall last night, listening to her talk bluntly about the challenges of alcohol and drugs in our community with her brother, and how it is a reflection of self-esteem, you would realize the impact you have made. Tremendous community role models as yourselves taking time from your already busy schedules, and donating your time to reinforce lessons about Character as it relates to life and sports is a true gift. I can't thank you enough for developing this camp. Character Camp Parent
Dear Ron and Don, I would like to commend you both for today's presentation on Character Education and Coaching. It has been a number of years since I have been coaching on a pool deck...At that time, I was finishing up a 'young' coaching career and I wanted you both to know that I always admired the work you did with your athletes. Today's webinar reinforced that belief.
I just wanted to tell you how fantastic of a program OA is. I came to this team from an environment that could not have been more different, and before I made the switch I was thinking about giving up on swimming entirely. Your coaching, and the amazing fellow swimmers I met, helped to remind me why I fell in love with the sport in the first place. I just wanted to thank all of you for giving me the opportunity to enjoy swimming again. I am so glad that I came to OA. The program you have is truly incredible, and I'm grateful for having been a part of it.
OA Graduate
I wanted to once again say how much we appreciate your coaching and leadership. I've shared similar thoughts with you before, but feel that expressions of affirmation and gratitude are always worth repeating. Our child absolutely LOVES swimming...and we can thank you and your program for that! We continue to see confidence grow and the development of strength and skill in the water, as well as the deepening of friendships with her teammates. The team became is a safe haven and that is a tribute to your commitment to truly putting character first. Thank you for making our job as parents so easy in what could otherwise be a turbulent and difficult time - we continue to marvel at the competent and joyful young adult our child has become - THANK YOU!
OA Parent
"Knowing that my son has such a team of caring, professional, and motivating coaches in his life brings me a sense of comfort. It is an honor to be a part of OA, and I believe that I will never find another organization that will have such a positive influence on our family."
OA Parent
Coach Don and Ron (and all OA coaches and swimmers),
I have yet to visit an OA practice but I could envision and appreciate the focus, pride, and strength of character of the OA swimmers in the moment displayed on the magazine cover. I know OA swimmers set a wonderful standard managing, embracing, and ultimately mastering the challenges, expectations and opportunities of being leaders, teammates, and athletes on one of the coolest, character driven and successful swim teams in the United States of America.
USA Swimming Coach
This community knows that in you, we have a treasure. Thank you for your interest, your ethics, and your commitment to the character of our children. Thank you for being an anchor when kids are adrift. Thank you for your kindness and compassion towards my child and the team, whatever community or school they belong too.
Thank you very much. What you do for our kids in terms of helping them develop their sense of character while building their esteem and friendships is remarkable. I believe it is a chapter of their upbringing that our kids truly cherish on their way to becoming young adults, and I know they will take it with them and it will influence them in positive ways their entire life.
Ronnie and Donnie,
I couldn't help but noticing in the news a story about a mass cheating attempt on a college campus. The reason I'm bringing this to your attention is because I wanted to thank you for everything you have taught me. I specifically remember having a team meeting about cheating in life and in the classroom and how to protect your personal integrity. I would like to think that I would not have done something this, but it would be naive to think that your confidence, pride, and love the both of you have for your swimmers did not have a direct influence on my development as a student-athlete and as a person, and my ability to avoid this type of thing.
A former OA swimmer
A heartfelt Thank You to you and your wonderful OA program for aiding in the development of the heart, body and minds of our kids!
Parent
"Knowing that my child has such a team of caring, professional, and motivational coaches in his life brings me a sense of comfort. It is an honor to be part of Orinda Aquatics, and I believe that we will never find another organization in our lives that will have such a positive influence on our family." Parent
"I could have only dreamed to have been part of a program like this in high school. This is a special team and I wish you much continued success shaping our wonderful kids."
Parent
Hi coaches,
I hope this e-mail finds you doing well. I can't even believe it, but I am actually en route to college as I write. I just wanted to take the time to thank you for all that you did for me. I was amazed and relieved to find a swim program that fit perfectly for me not only as a swimmer, but as a person. I cannot express to you how grateful I am to you for giving me the opportunity to be on this remarkable team. Not only did I improve as a swimmer, but I learned a lot about balance, and how to look at the "bigger picture." I am so thankful for you and that I could enjoy swimming again, just as I began to lose sight of my passion and love for it. Thanks to you, I am going into college with a wholesome, balanced perspective on the sport, and most importantly I'm genuinely excited to swim. The memories that I am taking with me from swimming on OA this summer will always be with me, because everyone has been so remarkably warm and welcoming, which is a reflection on the staff and what you stand for. I cannot thank you enough for all that you have done for me.
Best regards,
Hi coaches,
I hope this e-mail finds you doing well. I can't even believe it, but I am actually en route to college as I write. I just wanted to take the time to thank you for all that you did for me. I was amazed and relieved to find a swim program that fit perfectly for me not only as a swimmer, but as a person. I cannot express to you how grateful I am to you for giving me the opportunity to be on this remarkable team. Not only did I improve as a swimmer, but I learned a lot about balance, and how to look at the "bigger picture." I am so thankful for you and that I could enjoy swimming again, just as I began to lose sight of my passion and love for it. Thanks to you, I am going into college with a wholesome, balanced perspective on the sport, and most importantly I'm genuinely excited to swim. The memories that I am taking with me from swimming on OA this summer will always be with me, because everyone has been so remarkably warm and welcoming, which is a reflection on the staff and what you stand for. I cannot thank you enough for all that you have done for me.
Best regards
I know that you are men who live their beliefs and take action to make things happen. I came to recognize that over the few years my son swam for you two. The article reminded me of this and also how grateful I am that he found his way to Orinda Aquatics. You and Ronnie were, and continue to be, mentors and true friends for my son and I thank you for that.
An OA parent
From an OA swimmer (recently graduated college)
You have had such a profound impact on me and have really contributed to my growth as an athlete and more. I get a little teary when I think about how my swimming career is over, but I have achieved so much and have competed at a level I never thought I would. Thank you for everything!
Coach Don,
I am truly impressed with the clarity of standards you and Ron set for your program. It appears the kids understand and value the traits and standards you expect from them. In life, perhaps when things are the toughest, they will draw upon the grit, faith and practices learned and rehearse d consistently as athletes, teammates and contributors to OA.
OA clearly is a great program - a highly successful swim team and a great place for friendships and acquiring invaluable life lessons. Awesome!
Respectfully, Allan
Thank you for sharing the positive side of youth sports and swimming especially. Your vision of what is good about people and to promote them is unparalleled. The youth of our communities and the sport of swimming are so lucky to have you!!!!!
A School Administrator
"No matter how I travel and coach, I have to say that what you guys built at OA is one of a kind." From Kevin Lai, former coach (in Hong Kong)
Hi Don & Ron—
I wanted to drop you a quick note of thanks for allowing us some insight to the creativity you instill in your program to keep it fresh and fun. I came across your Graduation workout in Bob Steele’s “Games, Gimmicks, Challenges” book and loved the idea of it. When we had finished, they all threw their caps into the air and were telling me it was a very fun practice. They were all running over to their parents to tell them that they had just graduated. Dan
Hi Don & Ron—
I wanted to drop you a quick note of thanks for allowing us some insight to the creativity you instill in your program to keep it fresh and fun. I came across your Graduation workout in Bob Steele’s “Games, Gimmicks, Challenges” book and loved the idea of it. I am an Age Group coach and so I took the liberty of modifying it for our top 10-12 year olds as a nice Saturday challenge. When I told them what we were doing at the start of practice they were all a bit skeptical and overwhelmed by the length of it but about half way through practice they were really starting to get into it. When we had finished they all threw their caps into the air and were telling me it was a very fun practice. It’s not often I get an 11 year old to tell me that 5000 yards is fun. They were all running over to their parents to tell them that they had just graduated. It was a nice way to end "Hi coaches,
First, I want to thank you for all you do for the swimmers of our community - we have been so impressed with the OA program thus far!!! After hearing so much about high moral standards and emphasis on character, it is a real privilege to finally be part of a program that truly lives out their ideals. We have seen our child grow significantly in terms of focus, personal discipline, leadership, academic performance, etc. THANK YOU!!!!"
Thank you so much for all Orinda Aquatics does, I am so impressed and always grateful.
An OA parent
Regarding the "Letter to the Team"
"As a final note, I wanted to send along three comments from our division staff on your end of year recap (and this does not include those who verbally said something to me)":
From USA Swimming Club Development Staff
Thanks you for being a fantastic example of leadership, goodwill and great swimming.
A.C. in Vermont
I am proud to be associated with you...you have done so much for the Lamorinda community generally and the swimming community specifically. Well done and keep up the good work! Rick Vandenberg
"It is said that in everyone’s life there is a transition that occurs in the latter years. This is where the focus changes from personal success to significance. Fortunately for us, you and Ron have spent your careers and lives empowering children to see their potential, as well as how to achieve it. In doing this, you have transcended coaching and been a positive influence in a lot of lives. And what could be more significant
than that." A Fall Swimming Parent
Dear Ronnie and Donnie,
Ronnie, Donnie, Matt, Marc, Kevin, and Dave
You are awesome! I just want to say thank you for the coaching that you gave me. I am now coaching swimming at Notre Dame high school in san jose. Hope you are well! :) Congrats on all of your success! Much love, Gina
"Thank goodness for OA - you guys are such gifts to our children."
Note from Head Coach at Northwestern University: "We always enjoy getting swimmers from Orinda looking at NU and hope to find some with the right fit in the future." All the best to you and your swimmers.
